Saturday, June 13, 2009
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Relationships
Thanks to Geekologie, where from I steal many of my videos.
I especially like the part with the cyclist...
I especially like the part with the cyclist...
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Jackson turns 4
I've found that I am a better writer (at least more prolific) when things are stressed/frustrating/in turmoil. Thus possibly explaining the lack of posts in my current complacency and stable family life. I like my wife, I like my kids, and I like my job. Such novelty. We've had a fantastic summer here thus far and it bodes well to get even better as I have a lot of time off. Jackson turned four this past weekend, and here are a few of the pictures.
Thursday, June 04, 2009
Growler
Riding through a soft drizzle, mud spattering on my bare legs. Cool air across my recently shaved head. No helmet. Unmatched tires, too lazy to switch the slick on the back, left over from last winter's traner sessions. A Guinness trucker hat and a backpack coveting a growler full of IPA. A pleasant ride home from the Moose's Tooth. I don't quite understand this Bob Dylan movie that I am trying to watch.
Labels: beer - great inspiration for writing, Delay, Dylan, no cats
Thursday, April 30, 2009
A cat and a box...
Because I'm too lazy to write anything these days, and you need something entertaining in your life.
Labels: boxy, I love cats, lazy, wait until you see him jump out
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Friday, April 03, 2009
Answer: Friends and death
The questions is...What discussions should you try to avoid with your three year old?
Death is fairly obvious. What a nebulous subject for an adult mind no less that of a small child. Jackson and I were watching Return of the Jedi this evening (don't show your three year old this movie) and the very brief scene where Yoda (spoiler alert) dies impacted the remainder of our evening. Jackson is now very concerned that he and the rest of his family are going to die. Attempts to console with "that won't happen until we are all very old" were ineffective to a child who is unable to make the temporal interpretation of "after nap time" or "next week." I'll hope it passes. I am very uncomfortable with this discussion as I can't even make up a good answer to satisfy his comprehension. Hopefully we'll all sleep tonight and Ewok induced nightmare will not bring further questions of death.
Friends is another subject matter. I have always been pleased that Jackson's daycare addresses all the children as "friends." It makes me feel warm and fuzzy. I know we all grow up and choose our friends and not-friends (I like to think that I don't really have enemies) and we don't all have to appreciate one another's company. At Jackson's age, however, and with his wonderful temperament, it crushed me to find out that someone wasn't his friend. He was showing me pictures of the children in his class, pointing out "this is my friend (enter name here)...and this is my other friend (enter other name here)," with notable exceptions that didn't bother me too much. We came to a picture, however, where Jackson said "this is Daniel, he says that he is not my friend anymore," and I was devastated. My image of all the little children playing together, without the predjudice of alliances and and exclusionary factions evaporated. Not to mention the personal affront that someone possibly did not like my perfect, wonderful, generous, and loving child. They all grow up sometime, but I don't think it's time yet. I will try to delude myself into thinking this is all in the interpretation of a three year old's mind. But it still hurts a little bit.
Death is fairly obvious. What a nebulous subject for an adult mind no less that of a small child. Jackson and I were watching Return of the Jedi this evening (don't show your three year old this movie) and the very brief scene where Yoda (spoiler alert) dies impacted the remainder of our evening. Jackson is now very concerned that he and the rest of his family are going to die. Attempts to console with "that won't happen until we are all very old" were ineffective to a child who is unable to make the temporal interpretation of "after nap time" or "next week." I'll hope it passes. I am very uncomfortable with this discussion as I can't even make up a good answer to satisfy his comprehension. Hopefully we'll all sleep tonight and Ewok induced nightmare will not bring further questions of death.
Friends is another subject matter. I have always been pleased that Jackson's daycare addresses all the children as "friends." It makes me feel warm and fuzzy. I know we all grow up and choose our friends and not-friends (I like to think that I don't really have enemies) and we don't all have to appreciate one another's company. At Jackson's age, however, and with his wonderful temperament, it crushed me to find out that someone wasn't his friend. He was showing me pictures of the children in his class, pointing out "this is my friend (enter name here)...and this is my other friend (enter other name here)," with notable exceptions that didn't bother me too much. We came to a picture, however, where Jackson said "this is Daniel, he says that he is not my friend anymore," and I was devastated. My image of all the little children playing together, without the predjudice of alliances and and exclusionary factions evaporated. Not to mention the personal affront that someone possibly did not like my perfect, wonderful, generous, and loving child. They all grow up sometime, but I don't think it's time yet. I will try to delude myself into thinking this is all in the interpretation of a three year old's mind. But it still hurts a little bit.
Labels: Alaska, children should be neither seen nor heard, daycare, death, friends
